One hard thing was getting divorced. It must have been a difficult Journey for me with more than a few children. I easily wanted the ex-fiance to be gone plus I was determined to be alone. I easily wanted some safety for myself + many of my children. The divorce lawyer quickly got paper towel for finalizing those divorce actions. I told myself plus others that the ex-fiance wanted to contest our divorce, so it took extra time to finalize the divorce proceedings. During that time I had to use a divorce lawyer. If I wished for a granted divorce, I needed to wait for the rights denounced plus then I would receive the divorce. When the divorce was immediate, I was ready to decide our children fate. Even it seemed the girl was terribly abusive, I easily had to supply some visitations rights. I spoke with a family law counselor plus the family lawyer straighten the entire mess out completely. They easily told myself plus others not to worry much, plus they told me to refuse some visitation. The family lawyer gave me a lot of good information which seemed to contradict a lot of ideas that I had in the beginning. I found out exactly what laws I could use to get my kids plus myself away from that person. After that, I use the same family lawyer to help with some proceedings so that old guy did not receive any visitation to the children without some supervision. It was great to have helped in a situation.